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Services
Greenleaf offers two kinds of help. Counseling and coaching for the struggles most men and couples face at some point, and specialized recovery for pornography, compulsive sexual behavior, and betrayal. Both run on the same foundation: respect, personal responsibility, and lasting change.
All services are available in person in Kalamazoo or by secure telehealth anywhere in Michigan.
TRACK 1: COUNSELING AND COACHING
Individual therapy for men
Most men wait too long to get help. By the time they call, the anger has cost them something, the numbness has settled in, or the distance at home has gotten hard to ignore. Individual therapy at Greenleaf gives you a place to work on what's underneath: stress, anxiety, grief, resentment, old wounds, faith questions. You won't be talked down to. You'll be expected to do the work, and you'll see why it's worth doing.
Common reasons men come in: anger and irritability, burnout, feeling stuck or disconnected, marriage strain, loss, and major life transitions.
Individual therapy for women
Women come to Greenleaf carrying their own weight. Anxiety, grief, resentment that's built up over years, or the exhaustion of holding a family together. Some are working through a husband's betrayal. Many are dealing with something else entirely. Either way, you get a counselor who takes your experience seriously and helps you heal for your own sake, not just for the sake of the relationship.
Couples and marriage counseling
Every couple falls into patterns. One pursues, one withdraws. Arguments repeat on a loop and land in the same dead end. Couples counseling at Greenleaf draws on the Gottman Method and EFT-informed approaches to interrupt those cycles and rebuild the friendship, trust, and connection underneath the conflict. This work fits couples in serious trouble and couples who simply know they're capable of more.
Marriage coaching
Coaching is for couples who don't need therapy but want direction. It's structured, practical, and focused on skills: communication, conflict, decision-making, intimacy, and leading your home well. Think of it as training for the marriage you actually want, not treatment for a marriage that's failing.
TRACK 2: SPECIALIZED RECOVERY
Pornography and compulsive sexual behavior recovery
Quitting pornography takes more than willpower and an accountability app. Compulsive sexual behavior is a pattern with roots, and lasting freedom comes from treating the pattern, not just fighting the urge. Ray Brandon is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (IITAP), trained specifically to treat compulsive sexual behavior in a way that produces durable recovery. Expect honest assessment, a clear plan, and a counselor who has seen every version of this struggle and doesn't flinch at any of it.
Betrayal trauma counseling for partners
Discovering your husband's pornography use or sexual betrayal is a trauma, and it deserves to be treated like one. You're not crazy, and you're not overreacting. Betrayal trauma counseling gives you expert support from a clinician who specializes in partner betrayal, so you can stabilize, get real answers, and heal, whatever your marriage's future holds.
Couples recovery after betrayal
Rebuilding a marriage after betrayal is some of the hardest work a couple can do, and it can't be rushed. Recovery runs months to years, not weeks. Greenleaf guides couples through the full process, including full formal disclosure, rebuilding safety and trust, and restoring emotional and physical connection. Many couples come out the other side with a stronger marriage than they had before the betrayal. That outcome is earned, and we'll show you how to earn it.
Pornography Recovery Group
Isolation feeds the problem. Brotherhood starves it. The Pornography Recovery Group puts you in a room with other men doing the same work, led by a counselor who keeps the group honest and moving forward. Group members get accountability that actually works because it comes with understanding instead of shame.
NOT SURE WHERE YOU FIT?
Start with a free clarity call. 15 minutes, no pressure, and you'll leave knowing your next step, whether that's with Greenleaf Counseling or somewhere else.