The Greenleaf Path.
Six steps from your first call to standing on your own.
Six steps, in plain language.
1
Clarity Call.
Free, 20 minutes. If you’re a woman looking for help your man will respect, or a man who’s done pretending about pornography or compulsive sex, this is where you find out if we’re a fit. If we’re not, we’ll say so.
2
Fair Hearing.
Your side, heard before it’s challenged. For couples, both sides, separately if needed. Nobody gets ambushed.
3
The Pattern.
By session two, we name what’s actually going on and how we’ll work on it, in plain language. For recovery clients that includes a full assessment, not a guess.
4
The Work.
Individual or couples sessions using proven methods. Men in recovery add Freedom Fight, a men’s pornography recovery group, so the work has company. Betrayed partners get care for their own wound, not just the relationship.
5
Rebuilding.
Honesty, repair, and trust practiced where they count: at home. Disclosure, when it’s needed, done right and prepared on both sides.
6
Standing on Your Own.
Fewer sessions, more life. The door stays open.
You’ll get a counselor who hears your side, holds you to your part, and won’t pin on you what isn’t yours. If it ever feels otherwise, the next session is free.
— THE FAIR-HEARING GUARANTEE. APPLIES FROM THE SECOND SESSION ON.
Common questions
Will the counselor take my spouse’s side?
No. Step two is a fair hearing: your side, heard before it’s challenged. For couples, both sides, separately if needed. That’s what our fair-hearing guarantee is about.
Is this going to be touchy-feely?
No. We give straight talk that actually helps, and we use proven methods to fix the pattern, not the symptom. By session two, you’ll know what we’re working on and why.
What if I’m the one who was betrayed?
Betrayal is a trauma, and you get care for your own wound, not just the relationship. You can start whether or not your partner is ready to.
Do I have to share your faith?
No. Many of our clients bring a faith commitment, and it’s welcome here. It isn’t required.
What if Greenleaf isn’t the right fit?
You’ll hear it on the Clarity Call. If we’re not the right fit, we’ll say so and point you toward someone who is.